Together, Not Enmeshed: A Therapist's Guide to Healthy Relationships in Silicon Valley
Couple's Therapy Nicole Ohebshalom Couple's Therapy Nicole Ohebshalom

Together, Not Enmeshed: A Therapist's Guide to Healthy Relationships in Silicon Valley

Silicon Valley couples often mistake enmeshment for connection. Palo Alto therapist Nicole Ohebshalom explores how high achievers can build differentiated relationships—maintaining individual identity while staying emotionally close. Learn to recognize when partnership optimization becomes fusion, and discover practical steps toward healthy boundaries and genuine intimacy in your relationship.

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schema therapy and attachment
Nicole Ohebshalom Nicole Ohebshalom

schema therapy and attachment

Schema therapy’s aim is to meet these needs by helping you find the experiences that went missed in early childhood that will serve as an antidote to the damaging experiences that led to maladaptive schemas and modes.

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adult ADHD and relationships
Nicole Ohebshalom Nicole Ohebshalom

adult ADHD and relationships

Whether your symptoms of ADHD have recently been diagnosed and have struggled with the same symptoms since childhood, it is possible to function in a healthy relationship with your partner.

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