Who does Dr. Nicole Ohebshalom work with?

Dr. Ohebshalom works with individuals and couples, including CEOs, founders, executives, engineers, women, and high-profile individuals who value discretion. She sees clients in person in Greenwich, CT and by Zoom in Palo Alto and the surrounding Peninsula area.

Where does Dr. Ohebshalom see clients?

In-person sessions are at her office at 100 Melrose Ave, Greenwich, CT 06830, serving Greenwich, Old Greenwich, Riverside, Cos Cob, Stamford, Darien, New Canaan, and Fairfield County. Zoom sessions serve Palo Alto and the surrounding Peninsula area, including Menlo Park, Atherton, Los Altos, Los Altos Hills, Mountain View, Portola Valley, Woodside, Redwood City, and Hillsborough. She is licensed in California and Connecticut.

What are Dr. Ohebshalom's fees, and does she take insurance?

Sessions are 50 minutes and cost $465-$565. The practice is out-of-network only and does not bill insurance.

What is sex therapy and what does Dr. Ohebshalom address?

Sex therapy is talk-based therapy that helps individuals and couples address low and mismatched desire, sexual pain including vaginismus and pelvic floor dysfunction, sexual dysfunction, post-baby and post-illness reconnection, intimacy after infidelity, and reclaiming erotic vitality in long-term partnerships. Dr. Ohebshalom is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and holds a PhD in Human Sexuality.

Does Dr. Ohebshalom help with perimenopause?

Yes. She offers therapy for the emotional and relational side of perimenopause, including anxiety, irritability, mood changes, changes in desire and intimacy, burnout, and midlife identity shifts. Therapy supports, and does not replace, medical care.

Does Dr. Ohebshalom help with pregnancy, fertility, and postpartum mental health?

Yes. She is a PSI Certified Maternal Mental Health Therapist (PMH-C) and works with women through fertility, pregnancy, and the postpartum period.

What modalities does Dr. Ohebshalom practice?

Clinical modalities include EMDR, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples and individuals, AASECT sex therapy, Gottman Method, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Deep Brain Reorientation (DBR), Flash Technique, TEAM-CBT, Nonviolent Communication, Hakomi, grief therapy, somatic therapy, and mindfulness.

What is an EMDR intensive?

An EMDR intensive is a concentrated format of EMDR therapy delivered over consecutive days, tailored to the client's availability and goals. It is designed for busy professionals whose schedules cannot accommodate months of weekly sessions. Dr. Ohebshalom is an EMDRIA Certified Therapist and Consultant.

What credentials does Dr. Ohebshalom hold?

Dr. Ohebshalom holds a PhD in Human Sexuality, is a Registered Nurse (RN), is licensed in California (LPCC #11181) and Connecticut, is an EMDRIA Certified Therapist and Consultant, an ICEEFT Certified Therapist and Supervisor Candidate in Emotionally Focused Therapy, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, and a PSI Certified Maternal Mental Health Therapist (PMH-C).

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